Showing posts with label humanity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label humanity. Show all posts

February 05, 2011

Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son about his Father


Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son about his Father
(a documentary by Kurt Kuenne) 



Andrew Bagby
Dear Zachary is the true story of Andrew Bagby, his best friend Kurt, and every single person Andrew knew before his shocking murder. After ending a bizarre relationship with his girlfriend, Shirley Turner, Andrew was ready to get back to his life practicing medicine in Latrobe, Pennsylvania. Not even 24 hours after the break up, Andrew was found murdered in a nearby park. He was shot 5 times by Shirley. Soon after her arrest in Canada, Shirley announced that she was pregnant with Andrew’s child.


Filmmaker Kurt with Zachary
Andrew’s death was a tremendous tragedy, affecting everyone he had ever known. In his friend’s honor, filmmaker and director Kurt Kuenne dreamt of a tribute that recorded and memorialized everything anyone could ever know about Andrew and the amazing life he lead. It was his hope to one day pass his friend’s history to his unborn son he left behind, Zachary. With this idea in hand, Kurt left on a journey for which he had no specific time-line or end in mind. He would film until there was nothing left to learn about Andrew.

He had no idea the painful, beautiful, heart wrenching story that would unfold.

Andrew's parents with Zachary
For anyone who believes human beings are noble god-like creatures, with resilient hearts and minds, Dear Zachary will be the most riveting, Earth shattering film you’ll ever watch. And you’ll only watch it once, despite the fantastic musical scores, montages, and beautiful words spoken to a son about his father. It’s the worst story ever told in the most fantastic, beautiful, graceful way by fantastic, beautiful, graceful people. Though Dear Zachary illustrates humanity in its most disturbing hour, it also illustrates humanity at its most profound, remarkable and resilient.

-Sarah

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This is the only film Netflix has ever recommended to me with a 5 star rating according to my rating interests. Netflix hit the nail on the head and I also give this film 5 stars.

This is one those stories that makes you wonder why. Why oh why oh why? It's terrible enough of a story to lose your faith. For me, it confirms that we humans are alone. There is no higher power. There is no one watching over us. There is nothing out there. It's just us and that's all. Maybe that in itself is a tragedy. But the brighter side to a story like this and the revelations like mine, is that humans are awe inspiring. The resilience of the human heart is better than any desperate prayer ever to a pretend man in the sky. It makes me wonder why humans create gods to worship, when we are god-like ourselves.

Watch Dear Zachary and learn something about your own humanity.

July 03, 2010

My Top Favorite Sad Movies.

I love sad movies. I always have. I loved "Beaches" as a kid and I still love "Beaches" as an adult. By sad movies, usually I mean one where some dies or has to go away. The best sad movies are the ones based more in reality; the movies that remind you of your humanity. Not break up movies or anything Nicholas Sparks, though I've tried to like movies inspired by his books. I'm not a movie snob but "The Notebook" was really terrible, sadly. The ending is not sad and the only good parts are when the couple is young and broken up. "A Walk to Remember" could have been good but instead it was retarded. The best scene is the end. I love a good voice over, staring out into a sunset, reminiscing about the death of your "soul mate", but those movies are nothing compared to the ones on this list, the- saddest-most-heart-wrenching-reminds-you-of-your-humanity-beautifully-painful movies:

1. Beaches

2. My Girl

3. Steel Magnolias

4. Life as a House

5. P.S. I Love You

6. The Dangerous Lives' of Altar Boys
I couldn't find a respectable video of this movie anywhere!
7. The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas

8. One Last Thing

9. Patch Adams


and the saddest, most beautiful movie of all time

.10 Reign Over Me-

None of the above movies matter after you see "Reign Over Me". It's the most heart breaking movie I've ever watched. It's based on real events and you have to know that after you've watched it you've just peeked into the life of someone who lost the ones(s) they loved on 9/11. Someone that is real.

Charlie Fineman: Then I go inside the airport and I'm watching. I'm watching on the television... and I... and I... I... I saw it. I saw it and I felt it at the same time. I thought about Geena's birthmark, and I... I felt them burning...